The Legacy Lately on social media, Glen has been noticing a rise in divisiveness: Black Men vs. Black Women. Each group blames the other for issues in their lives, and it deeply saddens him. It brings him back to why they do the work they do on the podcast. HMAY’s why is to show what […]

Well… they didn’t exactly quit, but they are taking a break because Yvette will be taking on their previous couple’s therapist as her individual therapist! The Switch This transition was in the making for a while because she and the therapist got along so well, however, Yvette had been hesitant. She knew that couple’s therapy […]

In this episode, Glen & Yvette talk about if we really lose ourselves or become something new. Losing Herself in Marriage & Motherhood Yvette has talked in episodes past about the concept of losing herself in becoming a wife and a mother. (Want to hear those? Check out Episode 136 & Episode 137). Fat Nwigwe […]

What Are the “Quiet Years?” After listening to Episode 340 of the The Secret to Success Podcast’s Jemal King talk about the “Quiet Years,” something shifted for Glen and gave him this “Aha!” moment. The Quiet Years describes the time period after everyone in your community is done having babies and before they graduate high […]

Hello, Wedding Party! Last week’s conversation got Glen’s blood boiling (Watch that here). So many women related to Yvette when she expressed regretting not taking full advantage of her season of singleness. On one hand, Glen was so happy to see her expressing how she was feeling and was empathetic to her situation, but on […]

Hello, Wedding Party! This week, a young man came to ask Glen for some advice. After dating his girlfriend for two months, he knew this was it: he was ready to propose. But he hesitated, thinking about societal standards, and instead asked Glen: When is the right time to get married? Thinking about their relationship, […]

Hello, Wedding Party! Happy Thanksgiving!! Today Glen & Yvette are talking about things they didn’t know they would appreciate in each other, but are now thankful for in marriage! Things Glen is thankful for: She used to take him on hiking dates and once they would get to the top, she would ask what he […]

Trevor Noah’s Intimacy video referenced an article from the Washington Post, talking about how men are having less sex than decades past and  one man reviewing Bang Hookup Dating – an app described as “The Place where online casual dating is Safe & Easy, and you can feel Free & Relaxed to “Talk to Strangers”, […]

This week, a young individual in Glen & Yvette’s life asked if therapy as a single person is worth it and if they would’ve gone to therapy before getting married, how that would have affected their relationship now. The short answer: Therapy is very worth it. But why? The Start of Their Marriage After getting […]

One year ago, Yvette had been trying to hold it together after the loss of Glen’s sister because she felt she needed to for everyone else. The weight was heavy on her shoulders. While washing the dishes, she realized she couldn’t go on this way and needed to do something about it. She reached out […]