How married are you?! Podcast

We're Glen & Yvette

aka Beleaf Mel + Mrs. Melanin

We are Glen & Yvette, your HMAY podcast hosts, devoted to being the most raw picture of a strong marriage. Through honest conversations about all we’ve grown through and are growing through in our 12 years of marriage, we are excited to share with you all just how married we are!

Welcome to the Wedding Party!

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Our Top 5 Most Popular Podcast Episodes:


We Thought Our Marriage was Over!


What I Wish My Virgin Bride Would've Known


Ugly Ain't Forever


BEFORE You Get Married, Listen to This!


19 Months Later

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Very relatable- I can’t stop listening!

HMAY has really helped me through the struggles of juggling marriage and raising children. The topics that Glen and Yvette discuss are very insightful, detailed, comical (at times) and spiritually enlightening… Please keep them coming!


Binge worthy!

My husband and I are always trying to find new ways to spend time with each other and to spark good conversations. This has replaced TV in our home until we are caught up. My husband has officially told me that I can’t listen to them without him. It’s great!

- Mrs Danny B

So realistic & eye opening!

This podcast has REALLY opened my eyes to what marriage truly is. It helps me realize how much work comes with marriage and how it’s not always going to be all good. I absolutely love [Glen & Yvette]. Truly. Everyone thinking about getting married should listen!

- Anonymous

Gives me life!

This podcast has been such a breath of marital fresh air. I look forward to this podcast and the video that I’ll watch even after listening. The deep conversations, the transparency and the love these two share is amazing. Has been a blessing to my wife and I’s marriage…because they showed us we need a little bit of encouragement in this journey…

- Vincent Blaze

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Our Favorite Marriage Books

Come As You Are

An essential exploration of why and how women’s sexuality works—based on groundbreaking research and brain science—that will radically transform your sex life into one filled with confidence and joy.

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Relationship Goals

A candid, inspiring guide to finding lasting love and sustaining a healthy relationship by getting real about your goals—based on the viral, multi-million-view sermon series about dating, marriage, and sex

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The 5 Love Languages

Falling in love is easy. Staying in love—that’s the challenge. How can you keep your relationship fresh and growing amid the demands, conflicts, and just plain boredom of everyday life?

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Dating To Marry List

In episode 123, we talk about Glen's dating to marry list before he met Yvette to help him find his wife. We know how important choosing a future spouse is, so we created a free Dating to Marry "How To" PDF just for you! Drop your email below to snag it! 

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